I thought I’d toss this out there as a discussion. I’m fascinated by the experiences other couples have in their intimate, sexual lives together. (Maybe that’s why most of us are here). Some of the stories and discussions here are familiar to me and seem to be universal, some are new to me, most make my cock hard as I read them, and a fair number of them make Sarah’s pussy wet too. So, thank you all for that! We read a lot of them together.
I’ve never properly introduced myself here. My name is Mike and I am a painter in Colorado. My wife and I have been married forty years. We are avid hikers and technical climbers, which helps a lot when you want to get away from it all to be naked in the wilderness.
Like many of you, I came across this site (figuratively speaking of course) and its focus on monogamy seemed unique. One thing I have noticed in these stories and discussions is the freedom people seem to have in expressing the details of their sexual relationships. Sarah thinks it is a byproduct of the freedom they have with one another and the joy that freedom brings. I agree and would add that years of marriage seem to heighten that expression. It is a closely held secret that we share with a wink, but also one we share to express possibility.
That is the basic question I have for you folks out there: “In your sexual life together, what have you learned about each other, how has that enhanced your sexual expression and revealed your sexual needs, especially those needs you didn’t know you had?”
My own answer begins with a simple observation and segue. I have, in the past and on more than one occasion, cum hands free while licking her sexy, wet pussy. Her orgasm, her quivering thighs, her teeth biting down on her pillowcase, have caused me to release without warning and with an intensity that only her pleasure can fuel. That is one visceral answer.
On a more internal level, I’ve found that there is a level of intensity an intimate couple can share where their connectedness is so powerful and elemental, the marriage itself takes control. It is in many respects like a third person in a marriage. In a way, it is a fire we stoke that ultimately has a power and direction all its own. While that can be seen in other aspects of our lives, within our sex, it seems to reach a place where we still learn volumes about one another.
In those moments I often see her “new.” Her taste is new, the feel of my cock inside her is new, her flesh calls to me in a new and profound way and asks me to take her again, but to attend to the new territories that open before me—that endless landscape of pleasure and desire. In a very real sense, she is new, as those desires are revealed to both of us. That is a key: the awareness of our internal change—especially that change driven by each other and the marriage itself.
Sex with your lifetime lover should never be seen as a frontier with borders. There is no end to it if you are aware enough, if you look hard enough, and have a partner willing to explore. Those explorations are not always about those secret fetishes and kinks revealed (though they can be), but also a deeper awareness of the role sex has in the overall intimacy, health and vitality of a marriage.
In forty years, this is what we have found. From the first time we fumbled through sex together, to last night’s aggressive, confident orgasms.
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