Dry Orgasms – Requesting Advice
Dry Orgasms – a future “Dry Guy” seeking insights.
As a male, I find ejaculation—or semen, or an oozing load of cum—one of God’s mysterious gifts provided from our bodies! This was true for me both in masturbation as a single guy, and now in marriage as a beautiful part of lovemaking with my wife! It creates such intense intimacy. I L
VE this part of the experience—combining our happy endings with simultaneous explosions!
My favorite thing happens once we both cum during intercourse—and usually once my wife enjoys numerous sweet happy endings! I slide my dripping cock out and go down to her pulsating, oozing, warm mound and slowly lap up our mixture of love potions! It is an erotic, pleasing thing, and while I’m performing it, it is so wonderful to look up at her beautiful face to see how this added act of L
VE pleases my lover and best friend!
Anyhow, back to reality…
I have been recommended a surgery by my urologist that will result in the ejaculation part of my orgasmic pleasure being permanently shifted to a dry release. From what I am hearing, the orgasm climax sensation will remain. I’m just a bit skeptical about that, and, well, actually all of this!
I have sought several second opinions from other urologists, and based on my diagnosis and health history, this surgery is needed to keep me well. I’m really not sure at all how common this surgery is. I have heard that the age range of guys requiring this type of surgery varies, and that some have chosen to freeze semen prior to this procedure if they don’t feel their family-building time is complete. We are blessed in that department, so I won’t be freezing anything—although I will certainly be doing a “cum marathon” until surgery! After surgery, we will adjust, and pleasing my wife is my ultimate goal and priority!
Soooo to prepare…
I would like to seek any perspectives out there on dry orgasms.
From a wife’s perspective, has a husband’s inability to ejaculate lessened the lovemaking sensation experience in any way? And if so, are there any helpful hints that could guide me to be able to increase the orgasm experience for my wife once I become a “dry guy”?
From a husband’s side, especially from anyone who may have had this sort of medical experience, do you have any advice?
I have been in denial for a while on proceeding with this procedure, but I have come to grips with the fact that it is time to proceed in order to stay well!
I’m thinking about changing my personalized license plate on my car to “DRY~GUY”!
So if you see a car zoom by with that tag, that will be me!
Blessings, and thank you for any guidance! I’m usually a silent participant here on MH and have gained much from reading here. You all have provided sooo much to enhance our marriage bed!
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